A recently post TED talk by author/journalist Andrew Solomon.
“…many people were astonished and said, ‘but how can you decide to have children in the midst of studying everything that can go wrong?’ and I said, ‘I’m not studying everything that can go wrong, what I’m studying is how much love there can be even when everything appears to be going wrong.'”
“I don’t accept subtractive models of love. Only additive ones.”